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Latest revision as of 21:36, 24 March 2021
- 1. Admonition & Rebuke. Depending on the nature of the offense, the district should give serious consideration to engaging a licensed psychologist, or mental health counselor if a licensed psychologist is not available, for a personal assessment. An early report could be invaluable in establishing a benchmark in case of future repetition of behavior. A written assessment should be sent to the DS.
- a. The restoration team should consider assigning a mature pastor/mentor to meet regularly with the minister as a spiritual friend to walk with during the restoration process.
- b. The minister should write an extended reflection focused on the motivation and thought process behind the behavior. This reflection should be shared with the mentoring pastor as a basis of discussion and prayer.
- c. Assigned readings from Scripture and other works should be provided followed by written reflection by the minister. These readings and reflections should be shared with the mentoring pastor.
- d. The mentoring pastor will provide a written report to the DS. Similarly, a verbal report may be given to the DS with notes recorded.
- e. Depending on the offense, reconciliation with others may be necessary. If so, the minister will be required to seek personal reconciliation with those offended by his/her actions. This may take time and should be a natural outcome of the mentoring restoration process; recovery/restoration should continue until intrinsic, heartfelt reconciliation is sought. The mentoring pastor or appointed representative should record these efforts.
- f. The minister should provide demonstrable evidence of cooperation with the process, genuine repentance, and heartfelt change with regard to the presenting behavior. This should not be forced, but be a natural outcome of the restoration process.
- g. Upon written recommendation from the mentoring pastor and the approval of the DS, the minister will be deemed to have completed the restoration process.